Our approach is all about each individual's requirements, within the relationship, as well as strengthening the basis upon which your relationship has been created. This approach is not about formulas, techniques nor magic results. This approach is based in honesty, respect, clarity and love.
First we need to get clear with how we are creating our relationship, then we can change.
Most of us immediately think of relationships as being about loving couples, be this living together or married. At times it can be challenging communicating openly and honestly with someone we love.
Fear of unresolved past experiences, unfolding in our current relationship, can impede our ability to be honest. Sometimes we can feel like we don't even understand what has been happening or how we got where we are! It can feel so frustrating or even exasperating at times. Often we can find oursleves in arguments or patterns of behaviour, that leave us feeling confused or angry. We can see ourself enaging in this, yet seem unable to stop it. We want to create a loving relationship based in love and trust, yet often we find ourself struggling to do so. So how do we stop doing this ?
The first step in creating change, is willingness to do so. Secondly, we need to take responsibility for our relationship with our Self by heightening our awareness, as this is the basis upon which all relationships are created. In relationships, it can at times feel like you are wandering in the dark. In your individual sessions, you will be able to experience how this is, as well as what is actually happening. From this you can see how to keep the light on more often.
Your joint sessions are a place for you both to freely express yourself, in a safe and loving space. Often this can be hard to do, as there are unknown impediments to open communication. In your sessions you will find your way through these impediments, thus creating loving communication.
Martin Male BSc has over 35 years experience, supporting people to create loving, healthy and fulfilling relationships.This is based in grounded, practical experience, not abstract theoretical concepts. This is about you creating and holding a clear sense of Who you are and what is important to you. You will be supported to create, develop and maintain a healthy relationship with yourself first, from here all else is created. For more details about how this unfolds please click here.
